The next time you find yourself about to criticize something or someone, ask yourself, ” Am I doing this to be helpful? Or Am I being mean? Will my comment be appreciated, or hurt someone?” Your answer means the difference between being a good friend and being plain rude. Are you commenting on something that can be changed or controlled (like too much drinking or talking during meal), or are you pointing out a short coming that can’t be improved (like being handicap or being short)? If you’re truly trying to help someone, and you really do care about his or her feelings, think about how you would feel if you were told the same thing. Be kind and sensitive, and let your friends know you’re not picking on them or trying to hurt their feelings. And if you can’t find a way to get your point across gently, maybe you should keep it to yourself.
RELATIONSHIPS & MEDICINES play the same role in our life.
Both care for us in pain but the only difference is that
RELATIONSHIP doesn’t have an expiry date.
In life : ‘Don’t trust the people who change their feelings with time,
Instead trust the people whose feelings remains same when your times change.
Every problem is like a big door.
Surely there is a solution like a small key, which can open it easily.
Find the right key. Life is simple. Live it.
It’s not that you stop smiling as you grow old,
The real thing is that you grow old because you stop smiling.
Donate a Smile Today … And Live Longer !!!
The true secret about giving advice is that after you have honestly given it,
You have to be perfectly indifferent whether it is taken or not.
Have a wonderful weekend!